In this second episode with Alison Armstrong (the first one is here), I speak with Alison about relationships, safety, duty, transition rituals, and the quiet shifts that happen as love deepens over time.
Together we explore FIFO relationship dynamics, the return of a partner to the home space after work, the nervous system impact of arrivals and departures, how men and women can experience care, purpose, and commitment differently, and why unspoken expectations can create tension. This conversation moves through family duty, ageing parents, dating, boundaries, healing, and what it means to commit not just to a person, but to the way we choose to relate , with kindness, respect, honesty, and love as a daily practice.
00:00 ~ Welcome and Context
02:56 ~ Alison Returns and Heart Check
05:07 Healing with Mom and Duty 10:54 FIFO Homecoming Transitions 27:45 Safety and Commitment Shifts 36:59 Ever Presence of Death 39:48 Purpose and Depression 43:36 Boundaries That Work 52:07 Life Pie Planning 58:40 Dating and Rapport Tips
Listen to our previous episode
A fiction book / audiobook that explores the engrained dynamics between men and women and invites us to consider how we contribute to shaping our own relationships through out assumptions, inviting us to see relationships in a new way.
Extreme Freedom
The Freedom from being ordinary
Understanding Men & Understanding Women
Understanding Sex & Intimacy
Alison Armstrong’s exploration of human behaviour began in 1991, with her decision to study men:
“To find out how I was bringing out the worst in them. And hopefully, how to bring out the best.” Her success in understanding men naturally led to studying women’s behavior and making vital connections between the two.
As her work evolved over decades, Alison now illuminates human characteristics that precede and express
themselves regardless of gender, age and upbringing. She distinguishes normal human instincts that compel
both men and women to behave in ways that contradict and undermine our own purposes, goals, values,
needs and relationships.
Besides fulfilling the need to understand “Why” people behave as they do, Alison offers practical,
partnership-based alternatives. Through her seminars, books, online programs and media contributions, she
has been giving millions of people access to more fulfilling lives, loving relationships, stronger families and
productive organisations.
Alison is a sought-after speaker and thought-leader amongst people with the desire to live empowered lives.
Her philosophy and approach are referenced and taught by other authors, speakers, business consultants and
therapists.
Her live events and over 100 hours of online programs are available at alisonarmstrong.com
Website: AlisonArmstrong.com
YouTube: YouTube.com/user/PAXPrograms
Facebook: facebook.com/UnderstandMen
Instagram: instagram.com/TheAlisonArmstrong
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